Finding our place in the scene

We feel compelled to speak, but we are unsure what to say, to whom and why.

Everyone always says write what you know. We don’t know the pain, the sorrow, and the fear that is all too often part of the experience of people of color. 

What we do know is art. Art continues to provide solace and guidance during troubled times. Within that frame, we would like to offer that this is a good time for those of us used to living at the center stage of society to adopt some of the basic tenets of improv if we are feeling compelled to act:

Rules/Aphorisms/Guidelines of Improv:

Listen.

Not just to the words, but to the feelings and history behind them. On all sides. Understanding is a prerequisite for justice, and, like justice, is a process, not an end point.

Know each other.

Successful troupes embrace diversity. They seek to understand what each member brings to the scene—their values, perspectives and talents. If we all look, sound, act the same, we’ll never tell a good story.

Give focus.

If you live in the spotlight, step aside. This isn’t our moment. But don’t exit! Bearing witness and directing focus to the heart of the action is the responsibility of the whole ensemble.

Make your scene partner look great.

An improv group sees success as a group effort. We all shine when we lift each other up. Wellbeing is not a zero-sum game.

Amplify, don’t deny.

Rejecting a premise is the easiest way to draw attention to yourself and deflate an improv exercise. This is a time to let go of expectations and open ourselves up to what others are doing. Time for us to build on the foundation they are laying with their words and actions.

“Yes, and.”

This is the improv classic for good reason. When we say “but,” we are negating everything that came before and drawing the focus to ourselves. “Yes, and” affirms and builds momentum for the messages that others are putting into the world. [NOTE: “yes, and” can also be weaponized.]

No mistakes, only gifts.

We are all going to stumble as we try to navigate challenging times with conversations that are as raw as they are important. Each misstep is a chance to grow. No self-pity. Learn and move on.

All of life is improv. Let’s make better choices to give everyone a chance to tell their story so we can shape a next act that features more justice for all. 

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