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Wait, What’s the Story Behind the Storyteller?

A client shared a tense exchange with a colleague. This guy clearly walked into a conversation carrying his own assumptions about the situation, a story shaping how he pushed back, but he

It Matters Who Shows Up in the Room

Last Friday I looked around a room full of professionals, all there to learn how to lead people better. They had different degrees of understanding about how much their own way of

A holiday spread of eggnog and small cakes

Naughty or Nice: The Holiday Trap

‘Tis the season of challenging communication. We’re tired and running from party to party, planning for the new year, and then we add family and intense

A business meeting with a young African woman at the head of the table

The Alex Effect

When your words have greater impact than you expect or intend.  There’s Alex and there’s me.  I see us as colleagues in a small office.  When